So I talk to my friends and family more now on facebook but are more and more of us are spending less and less face time with our friends and family because of that. I just saw this new poll of 1,000 adults by Esure, an insurance company, 41% of couples said they were more likely to text, e-mail, or use a social-networking site to relay message to their partners than speak in person.  Efficient?  Sure.  But it doesn’t allow for an emotional connection, says relationship expert Ian Kerner, Ph.D, “Peoples may become detached, which can lead to relationship strife,” he says.  Instead, use technology to nab more face time. So every now and then remember to use texting or facebook to see people like… “How bout Lunch” or “R U free 2nite?”